A Permanent Love Story

One Suffolk groom surprised everyone at his Ipswich wedding. Especially his bride.
Bride and Groom on Isaacs Ipswich balcony
Courtesy of Andrew Capel Photography

"You won't believe this"

We see plenty of surprises at weddings, but this one genuinely caught everyone off guard. When celebrant Lisa returned to the office after Bev and Neil's wedding, she walked in saying: "You won't believe this..." , naturally, we needed to know more:

"They were a lovely couple and clearly very much in love. I knew they had written their own vows for each other, so I was looking forward to that".

But neither Lisa nor bride Bev, had any idea of what was to come: 

Neil, unbeknown to most guests and definitely unbeknown to Bev, had something else up - or rather, under - his sleeve:

I had the idea, leading up to the wedding, to tattoo the vows on my arm.
Neil, groom
Wedding vows tattooed on grooms forearm
Courtesy Andrew Capel Photography

As the ceremony began at Isaacs on the Quay, everything seemed normal.

Neil started reading his vows from a card.

Then halfway through, he appeared to lose the second page.

Guests looked confused.

Bev looked puzzled.

Then Neil took off his jacket and rolled up his sleeve.

Groom shows bride vows tattooed on his arm
Courtesy of Andrew Capel Photography

The wedding moment nobody expected

Tattooed on his forearm were the rest of his wedding vows.

Instead of reading from a piece of paper, he carried on reading directly from his arm.

He took off his jacket, rolled up his sleeve, with me looking very bemused, and continued reading his vows from his arm. How I held it together I do not know. I was truly shocked.
Bev, bride

Keeping the secret was the hardest part

Getting the tattoo was easy compared to keeping it hidden.

Neil's original idea was to cover it with a bandage and pretend he had injured his arm.

The tattoo artist quickly ruled that out, explaining it could damage the fresh tattoo.

So Neil switched to long sleeves instead. Not ideal when your wedding falls during one of the hottest weeks of the year, but despite Bev's questioning he pulled it off.

Neil even slept with his tattooed arm hidden under the duvet to avoid giving the surprise away.

Bride and groom doing park run
Image: Couples' own

An unusual start to their wedding day

As if hiding a tattoo wasn't enough, Bev and Neil also started their wedding day in a way few couples would: 

They ran a Parkrun dressed as a bride and groom.

The problem? 

Neil still needed to hide the tattoo!

I told Bev to make it look more authentic I would wear a long-sleeved black top under the very thick T-shirt. Unfortunately, the only long-sleeved black top I had was a thermal ski top. So running Park run on another scorchingly hot day wearing a thermal ski top and thick T-shirt wasn't the easiest run I had ever had to do.

We're inclined to believe him. What a legend!

Many congratulations again from all of us, Bev and Neil!

Bride and groom with champagne glasses smiling at each other
Courtesy of Andrew Capel Photography

Bev's and Neil's Team:

Celebrants: Lisa Brook and Amanda Oliver, Ipswich Register Office

Wedding Venue: Isaacs on the Quay, Ipswich

Photographer: Andrew Capel Photography

Music: Ian Knight, Relevance

Flowers & Makeup: bride

Cake: Couple's friend

Hair: Bride's friend

Bridal dress: Vinted

Groom's attire: Moss Bros

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